The first commenter argues that there is an absence of responsibility. It's never my fault; it's always someone else's."
Which almost 26,000 individuals are in agreement with. Someone another chimes up and says, "Exactly this.
Or blame you for the behaviors that they engaged in as a result of their frustration."
Someone posits, "When they use intimate and vulnerable things, you shared with them against you," which can be paraphrased as "when they use things you shared with them against you.
A second user makes reference to the following lines from the Hozier song "Take Me to Church:
"I'll tell you my transgressions so you can hone your sword," he said.
One person defines it like this: "Only being nice to people who can be helpful to them
An further person clarifies, "I will never forget what was said. "Don't judge someone's character based on how they treat you